Since April, it’s been my commitment to finally start financially growing in the way I’ve always wanted to. After creating my website, it came time to put my hands in the mud: sales.
First I made the mistake of launching Facebook Ads pre-maturely. In the moment it didn’t seem like quite a mistake, but now I have learned a lot more and decided to first increase my revenue and then experiment with ads when I have a larger budget.
In the past 2 weeks I’ve been highly committed to experimenting and learning sales. It’s been an emotional rollercoaster.
Conquering Inner Demons: It’s So Easy, In Mind
In theory, the prospect of anything is incredibly easy.
If you want to get several girls, all you have to do is buy a training program and then hit the clubs and talk to all kinds of girls. Within a year you’ll be an expert.
If you want to grow a business, you buy a training program and hustle hard. You just have to evaluate what’s most important (sales + closing deals) and then do that.
Yet that’s not what happens.
As humans we can so easily make two mistakes:
The first is over-analyzing, over-planning, yet never taking action. This is me- I have known so much for so long yet not applied it.
The problem with this one is you’re a “talker” but not a “walker.” People validate you because you sound intelligent, when in fact you are not applying what you’re talking about.
I’m purposefully writing way less on the blog for this reason, and from now on only writing about things I’ve already done rather than the theory of the future.
The second is indiscriminate action. I’ve also dipped into this, though my problem lies more in the first.
These are the people that blindly shout you need to work 90 hour work weeks. Yet they don’t make any progress. They rush to take action, yet without planning or any degree of reflection.
Alas, it is not yin or yang which we need yet both to create the whole. Success in any field is a combination of planning & thinking while also taking massive action. One without the other leads to mediocre results.
Conquering Inner Demons: Getting Assistance
One of my own problems has been being too stubborn combined with being too disorganized.
Getting organized has happened naturally as I’ve taken more action. It’s especially happening as I start to schedule sales calls and practice sales calls with other sales newbies.
Admitting that I needed help was difficult. I ended up purchasing the “Consulting Accelerator” program for $1,500 (my referral link gives you $500 off the $2k price if you’re curious) because it is the most comprehensive course on creating a consulting business.
It’s the best purchase I’ve ever made. I’ve also purchased coaching calls with others, some as high as $250 for just 45 minutes with an expert. That too was a good investment.
I’ve written previously about the “map of consciousness,” in which a “calibration” above 200 is productive and healthy and anything below 200 unproductive and not healthy.
Well I can see now that I’ve calibrated so close to 200 in terms of wealth creation- I’ve calibrated at the level of “pride.”
At pride you are taking action (sometimes), but more concerned with your appearance or image.
A prideful person also is insistent that they could “achieve it all on their own” and so they do not get help from courses or others, even when the time saved is so significant.
You see this pride rampant among the internet because the majority of the population on Earth calibrates below 200. According to the book Power vs. Force & Levels of Energy, the global average has only exceeded 200 and for long before that we calibrated right below the level of 200.
Everyone is so insistent that you can “find everything for free online,” yet they fail to realize in doing so you will lose countless hours and also get confused by free advice which is not useful.
Anyone can write a blog. It only costs me about $60 or $80 per year or something like that for each one of my websites. That’s not even the cheapest hosting either!
By going through the consulting program, I’ve been able to learn exceptionally valuable lessons and face my inner flaws.
It was not pleasant. I had to face the fury, and I still am.
Conquering Inner Demons: Facing the Fury
Recently I messaged a friend who had become quite successful in business, and recently became quite successful with the ladies as well.
Initially I had been more successful in business than he- but he soon overtook me as I regressed from courage (taking action) to pride.
What I told him was something like this:
“I realize now why I always delayed taking action. By taking action, I’m confronting all of my inner securities and even the positive beliefs I’ve had about myself that I’m smart. I feel rather stupid because I realize now ther’s so little I know, so many mistakes I’ve made, and so much to learn.”
Sometime in April, when I resolved to actually become great, I began to have some negative thoughts start popping in my head telling me that I was “stupid.”
Sometimes I’d fight it with thoughts like “I’m smart,” but that didn’t make me feel too good either.
I realized recently that thoughts like “I’m smart” did not feel so good because they came from a place of pride. What does it matter if you’re smart or not? It doesn’t matter, all that matters is the results and happiness.
I had some beginner’s luck in business, but I failed to be persistent in my action until recently.
This beginner’s luck left me with a bit of pride and self-belief that I was greater and more intelligent than I actually was.
No, I was wrong. I am far from great. Far from skilled. There is much to learn, in all aspects of online business.
Sometimes when I take action and I’m building a sales list to contact, I start to get negative thoughts and my brain gets cloudy. But I push on.
I remind myself that it doesn’t matter how smart I am, for it is an iterative process. For example, my second version of the sales outreach script was a disaster. My 5th iteration or V5 is what has performed best. V6 has been mediocre.
The problem with thinking that you’re smart is that you expect great results instantly or soon.
That’s not how life works. You must take action, measure the results, and then form a new hypothesis and take action again. This iterative process is what gets you success in all areas of life, whether it be fitness, business, or dating.
For example, one non-business epiphany I had recently was that getting a woman’s Instagram was reducing my “approach to conversation ratio.” This ratio is how many women go from approach to text conversation.
The problem with getting a girl’s Instagram is that if she has already a fair number of followers then my follow will not trigger a proper notification on her end, and my message to her will get trapped in the “message requests” folder.
I hardly have any followers yet I am constantly spammed with porno bullshit.
Does this mean that I’m “bad with the girls?” No, it just means that the previous method of acquiring a girl’s contact information was ineffective. It’s likely that some of the girls I talked to are confused why they “never got my message” because they mass delete all messages that go to spam!
The school system is a huge detriment to this as well no matter if you were considered “smart” or “stupid.”
Some believe they are not smart, yet they just had crap teachers and a broken system- they could be in fact so intelligent.
On the other end of the spectrum you could believe you’re smart and win in that system, but then feel afraid to take action (me) because when things “don’t work” the first time you feel insecure about your intelligence.
I’ve sent 690 Emails but only had 2 sales calls (with 1-2 more in the pipeline). That’s a shit ton of work. That’s a threat to my perceived identity of being “smart” or a “good communicator.”
However one iteration (V5) of the 690 Emails (128 Emails of the 690) performed particularly well. By doubling down on V5, which is where one of the sales calls were acquired and another 1-2 are in the pipeline, it’s easily possible that these numbers will be better.
Be… Without Form Like Water
If anything this growth experience has taught me that I have to let go of my identity and become like water. Having an ego is of no benefit, whether you have positive thoughts or negative thoughts. Both inhibit you when it comes time to hit a new goal.
Some days are a struggle, but I push on because I know that I must go on in order to succeed.
It’s only a matter of time until I crack the sales code, and at this point there is no limit to my success.
In the meantime, it’s more of an internal battle than anything. The consulting course gives you an easy framework to follow to get results.
It teaches you a scientific, iterative process that allows you to refine your sales processes & offer so that you and your clients get the best results.
The thing is, you can’t get attached to any identity or emotions because it’s almost a guarantee that V1 will not be effective.
Iteration is the key word here- you must always test new things and keep what works while discarding the rest!
Regulate Yourself With Data
Sam Ovens, founder of the course, reminds you to “regulate yourself with data, not emotion.”
There are several times in the past 2 weeks where I’ve felt down because I’ve opened my laptop to receive no responses after grinding on writing cold Emails.
But I had to remind myself: that’s just V1. Or that’s just V2. It’s an iterative process and you have to test a ton of things to get it right.
The great flaw with school is that you get a one-time grade that defines you. That makes no fucking sense and has no basis in the reality of life & business.
In real life, if you do not succeed the first time you are allowed to reiterate and improve over and over until you get results.
The fucking school & University system is a mess. If I send a cold Email that gets no response, that does not define me forever. I am allowed to resend another Email to a new person or hell even the same person!
What we perceive as our identity is just a temporary snapshot of where we are at in a particular moment. It’s always changing.
Conquer Your Demons
I’m sharing with you today so that you can remember to conquer your own demons and face them!
With whatever goal(s) you have in life, you can achieve them, but you probably won’t succeed on the first attempt. That’s because life is a scientific, iterative process in which you most constantly retake the test over and over until you pass.
Unfortunately modern schooling makes us think that one grade defines us forever. No, you’re allowed to try over and over until you succeed!
Even more unfortunate is that you may have an identity. Whether you think you’re smart or not, this identity will likely hold you back. You have to relinquish this identity such so that the demons have nothing to attack.
How can the demons attack if I am neither smart nor stupid? They have no beliefs to punch, and I can just focus instead on reiterating what needs to be done until I achieve the desired goals.
Be like water, and lose resistance to your goals. Plan & take massive action for maximum effect. Reiterate over an over until you get it right. Done.
It’s been almost 4 weeks since returning to Sofia, and it’s been filled with ups & downs.
Overall, things are good. I’m calling it “A New Sofia” because it really is unlike what it was before, in a good way.
Let’s dive in and see why that is. We’re also going to cover several interesting life topics, such as vibrations, energy, and self-improvement, so this is gonna be a long, packed post.
A New Sofia
Many things are completely different to how they were before. A lot of construction that had previously been taking place is now complete, which opened up some absolutely beautiful areas.
New shops have sprung up, and others have closed down. I’m happy for this.
Me and some friends went to get some “doners” (type of Turkish wrap sandwich, very popular in this area of the world) at a place which used to have what we believed some of the best in Sofia.
It was awful. Another place was closed. Things have changed surprisingly a lot.
Luckily we found a Gyros shop (which is similar to doners) which was even better, and I’m really glad for that. The doner shop and other shop which closed were associated with my ex, but these new places get to be a part of the “New Sofia.”
Some friends have drifted off, mainly in the sense that I feel I’ve grown up too much from them.
Others I’ve become even closer with, as it always is. I’ve made new friends already too. It’s always weird seeing these changes when returning to a city in which I had a previously large social circle.
I used to always go to this one cafe to do my work, and I initially did at first, but resentfully. It is about a 20 minute walk through several paths that require up/down stairs, which isn’t so fun when carrying a laptop & bag.
It didn’t even feel that good being there. Though it was nice seeing some of the old staff.
I found a new cafe to work remotely from, and so far I’m enjoying it a lot more than that other place. The seats are more comfy, the coffee tastier, and funny enough I’ve already made friends with some of the other regular faces I see in here.
The cafe/coffee scene is definitely subpar compared to Thailand, but I did find a couple places with high-quality coffee. Only one place truly stands out, with a taste as good as the high-quality Thai & American coffee I would drink.
On the other hand I’m really enjoying the parks & nature. Being able to go for a jog outside and around the city anywhere is amazing. In Thailand you’d eat up all that delicious pollution and potentially get hit by a vehicle!
I recently made a conscious decision to break my habits and routines. No similar restaurants, cafes, bars. I wanted to do new places that didn’t have memories with my ex.
It’s been really incredible. I’ve discovered some awesome restaurants with fascinating food.
Surprisingly I also found a place which serves Vietnamese food with Pho almost as good as the Pho in Vietnam. I’ll probably eat that again tonight.
Pushes in Business
Business has been the biggest focus since coming here and I’ve made significant progress. It’s a frustrating, iterative process testing different messages, ads, this, that, etc. until you get it right.
Of course when I finally do get it right things will just blow up such so that my problem becomes too many clients, not too little.
This is my biggest priority, and I haven’t been too concerned about dating. It’s great that I have many great friends here as well so I don’t have to worry about that area. I can just work and then hangout in the evening.
On Tuesday & Thursday I did no-caffeine days, and I am beginning to think there’s a chance I’m addicted to what little caffeine I do drink (100ML per day, about one cup, not often but sometimes 200ML or 2 cups).
Either that or my sleep hasn’t been good recently. I’m willing to bet it’s a combination of both.
Instead of quitting caffeine, I’ve decided to manage the potential addiction (which is NOT confirmed anyways).
You can only fight so many battles at once. Right now I’m focused on business, and not gonna lie but a nice cup of coffee helps quite the bit when it comes to the menial, repetitive, fucking annoying tasks that are 100% necessary in order to succeed.
My new routine I’ve designed is to wake up, meditate, drink coffee, get to work, and then after the first portion (or all) of my work I will eat, then workout, finish work if I have it, then hangout and do whatever.
The key thing is that I workout before the final caffeine crash, and the workout high will remove any potential withdrawal symptoms and keep me focused for the remainder of the day.
Again I’m not sure whether it’s coffee or poor sleep- so I’m also putting in an effort to fix my sleep, which is a bit difficult considering the whole “no AC in Europe despite it being a really hot summer” thing.
I do not eat until I finish the important, sales portion of my work. It seems to be an exceptional habit-building tool to force yourself to do the most daunting (or in my case occasionally repetitive and fucking annoying) tasks first thing in the day.
It quickly builds a habit: you get hungry, and the only way you’re allowed to eat is if you do the hardest thing in the day. My brain is already starting to love sales.
I don’t think I’d be loving sales so much unless it were for this habit-building trick. I’ve caught my brain saying things like “this is so much fun” when 4 weeks ago I would’ve vomited and what I currently find “fun.”
It does the trick though! I earn my food. I’m even occasionally repeating this in other parts of my day via habit.
For example while hanging out with a friend we’ve suddenly decided that before we eat dinner we have to approach pretty girls and talk to them. It’s almost a daily ritual now!
Focus & Calmness
I’m putting more effort into created a focused, calm life. Not so much social media, distractions, stimulations, etc.
Things like video games & reddit do not fulfill me anymore. I can literally feel how they pollute my brain, it’s really strange.
Instead, I often feel more fulfilled sipping coffee and getting some work done than I do relaxing playing a video game. I guess it’s not really relaxing to play a video game anyways.
A Personal Transformation
I’m starting to see why entrepreneurs that become successful often want to do nothing but work:
It’s so fucking fulfilling.
The days where I send out dozens of sales proposals, produce a new sales video, write new sales copy, and run around Sofia all while sipping coffee and making clear, legitimate progress on my goals are epic.
Then it feels often dull and boring when I decide it’s time for “pleasure and relaxation.”
My definition of pleasure & relaxation is changing from social media, video games, YouTube, and drinking to just relaxing with no notifications at a restaurant or having a good conversation with friends. Even a legit nap is better.
I often wanted to create wealth so that I could be free, yet the funny thing is I may end up choosing just to work anyways.
Already on the weekends I get agitated by the fact that I’m “not supposed” to work. A part of me really believes I should take the days off and relax, but the other just wants to keep making progress in some way.
It’s not coming from a desperate, needy frame, but from the type of frame like “dude it feels good let’s just sip coffee and work!”
I’m currently trying to find a balance in all of this. Being self-employed can be… confusing.
Anyways, I’m trying to consume less, talk less, and just do more. I want to be more successful than people think, and I think that for the past couple years everyone has thought I’m more successful than I legitimately am.
It sickens me to think that I was just full of hype like everyone else. Now I don’t want to talk about business, please no. I just want to do things.
Do I create a schedule? If I do, what if I finish work early or have more work? How do I plan my days? When should I take a day off, or a vacation?
These things really confuse me. I find myself searching for answers in Google, yet Google caters to the masses- it’s extremely difficult to find proper blogs that are not hyped up bullshit about being self-employed.
Most blogs that I do know of are hyped-up BS that ignores the true difficulties of the unique situation that the niche is in.
That’s because the truth is these blogs are not for people in that niche, but for people wanting to be in that niche.
Example: “digital nomad.” These are people that work remotely from anywhere and can travel.
That is technically me for past couple years. I find though that these blogs do not talk about the legitimate difficulties of being a digital nomad, and instead focus on all the hype.
This is because digital nomad blogs are not for digital nomads. Digital nomad blogs are for people that want to become one, or fantasize about it. Same for entrepreneurial blogs.
The truth is there are many downsides to being an entrepreneur or digital nomad. For me they are better than the alternative, but nonetheless they are problems that must be mitigated in order to maintain your sanity.
In short, I’m finding that I’m forced to find my own solutions to my problems- I am unable to find answers so easily on Google, and even many of my friends could not give the proper advice.
Often my friends give great advice, but some things are very contextual and require direct experience in order to truly understand.
Gratitude for Pains of the Past
You know what I’ve been thinking about recently? Thank GOD I was bullied so badly in school.
Okay, maybe if I could’ve changed the past, I would’ve wished myself a better childhood. I didn’t enjoy feeling like an outsider, a weirdo, an outcast. I would’ve liked to get laid, too.
But what I’ve realized is that it’s quite probable I may have never discovered entrepreneurship if I felt more like I belonged in my school, city, and social circle.
In a strange fashion I find myself grateful for many of the pains I had in my past because it’s forced me to become who I am today.
Today I often feel jaded- but in a good way. This means that little things don’t bother you. Sometimes my energy stoops into petty levels, but often I find myself super chilled out.
Sometimes someone will say something and I’ll look at them with an icy, blank stare and they suddenly put all their cards on the table. Friends that knew me in the beginning of Sofia (November 2017) report that I certainly have matured a ton- the vibe is different, more grounded.
I know now that I can overcome anything that is thrown my way. It’s a matter of when not if.
And as for things such as the isolation I felt in my teenage years, it is likely that which drew me to entrepreneurship and digital nomadism.
If I had “belonged” to a group, then perhaps I would’ve gone to University like everyone else and never even considered the possibility of an alternative. I would’ve succumbed to group-think, perhaps.
My own trials of the past led to me thinking independently and analyzing my options from an objective perspective. This helped me realize that entrepreneurship was much safer than having a “secure job,” and that the pay-outs would be a lot better.
I’ve just observed in myself a certain icy groundedness that I never could’ve imagined I’d actually get so fast.
Perhaps almost a year of daily meditation is to thank for this. There is usually a peaceful place inside I can always ground into.
I don’t remember when exactly I began (perhaps it’s even been more than a year), but for a very long time now I’ve meditated 10+ minutes every morning. Sometimes 15, sometimes 20, but 10 at the bare minimum.
The effects are compounding. It’s a solidified habit, and I’d feel disgusted if I didn’t meditate in the morning. I can go without eating- not without my morning meditation.
While I don’t want to die now, I even find myself now more comfortable at the thought of my eventual demise. It’s just another experience. Times have changed…
Letting Go of Fears & Emotionalness
In the big push to finally do what I’ve always wanted to do in business, I find myself confronting many fears and emotions and doubts.
When my online ads didn’t perform so well, I became emotional and worried. But I’ve learned to calm and ground myself, and see things objectively. Then I fixed it and it was all good.
Same for my new form of sales I’m currently doing. At first I wasn’t within KPI (key performance indicator). I became emotional and worried.
But then I was like “bro, you’ve done this for 5 fucking days, and this is version 1.”
I’ve realized now that the reason so many people do not achieve their dreams is simply because they lose sight of the iterative, scientific process that is required in life in order to succeed.
Whether you’re picking up girls, optimizing your health, or growing a business you need to be scientific and iterative in your methodology.
This means that you test, measure, collect feedback, and then re-test. It’s so crazy how we are not taught this in school, and even crazier how easy it is to forget this.
Today I think I’ll even print this out as a reminder to read & see every single day.
When something doesn’t work, it doesn’t mean that you are the problem but instead that the action does not produce a result.
My favorite book is “The Science of Getting Rich,” for no other reason than the title (but it’s totally worth a read, I’ve read it over and over).
Just like Chemistry, if you combine two elements there should always be an exact result. Is the true not same of life?
There are many variables, but there IS a scientific way to succeed. But it’s easy to forget that.
For me my “Beta 0 and Beta 1” sales letter performed very poorly. I created a “Updated V1” than has performed a bit better. Yesterday I initiated tests with “V2.”
It’s so ridiculous to think that I become so frustrated and emotional after just a few days of my sales strategy, when I hadn’t even tested multiple variations in the advertisement’s messaging!
That’s how emotions work though.
Now I’m not saying you should deny your emotions or self-attack. It’s important to feel them, express your anger in working out, and cry when you feel sad.
Just you can’t let it mess with reason. I recently went through an incredible course about business, and one of my favorite quotes is:
“Regulate yourself with data, not with emotions.”
Things almost never work the first time. It’s the 8th iteration of testing that makes you profit.
I keep reminding myself of this, and already it’s paying out. My V1 tests performed better than B0 & B1. I hypothesize V2 will perform significantly better, but I have to put it to the test before confirming anything.
In short, I’m not being so emotional. Instead when I get emotional I review the data, and this reminds me to not be so emotional.
Business is really like Chemistry. If you want an explosion, you will have to test several combinations of chemicals. The vast majority will not create the desired result.
When you finally get the desired chemical combination for the desired result, well then you know what works, and so you can create as many explosions as you want.
The metaphor of course being that when I finally master client attraction, it will suddenly be a problem of having too many clients because I’ll be able to create that desired result over and over.
Fluctuations in Vibration & Consciousness
Recently I’ve really taken a liking to the book I read earlier this year “Power vs. Force.”
In it is a map of consciousness. I find it to be highly accurate, and it’s fascinating seeing the dynamics play out in areas of my own life.
Here it is:
I believe that we have a “baseline level of consciousness” and then multiple layers without yourself.
For example your average may be an energetic calibration of 205. But over the weeks on some days you may calibrate at 125, and on other days 350, totalling an average of 205.
Anything under 200 is considered unproductive and unhealthy. You will not typically get positive results in life under 200.
It’s really fascinating. On some days in the past month I’ve derped on Reddit and gotten triggered by posts. Typically something on the relationships subreddit or “Am I The Asshole” subreddit. Just silly drama stuff, you know?
On those days I notice my vibe dipping into fear, desire, pride, and anger. During this temporary dip my muscles tighten, and things seem to become more difficult. My own energetic level becomes lower, I feel less inclined to clean and work, etc.
On other days where I’m identified with “higher level attractor patterns” as the author writes, such as Courage, Willingness, and Acceptance, I find myself filled with vitality, passion, gratitude, and a good energy.
Things come easier. I get results. I can focus longer. People smile at me.
When I first returned to Sofia, my vibe dropped substantially. I likely calibrated somewhere between grief and anger. This could be due in part to pain about my ex still, but there were likely other things I had to take responsibility for. For example, massive sleep deprivation & jet lag.
During the first two weeks, things seemed to be quite fucked up! My laptop stopped working effectively (though there were hints of this in Thailand), I dropped my phone and it shattered, I had an enraging encounter with a jerk, and other things.
Now most people would consider it “bad luck.” I don’t believe that.
I believe that I attracted shitty life circumstances because my vibe dropped.
For example, once I was crossing the street and a car decided to jump on the accelerator to intimidate me. I was already in an angry vibe, flipped him off and spit at him. I walked away, and he got out of his car. When I realized he was about to yell at me, I stormed back as he got back in his car and spit at him again for good measure. Then I left as he got out again.
Most people would say “wow he’s such an asshole, bla bla bla.” And probably justify my anger.
But I know that that’s not the case. The fact is this old man was in an angry vibe, I was in an angry vibe, and we came together and found a way to manifest our anger collectively.
When you’re in a certain vibe, you attract situations that justify that vibe and also focus on things that reinforce that vibe.
Perhaps from his perspective he was already turning and I was an asshole for running across the street. From my perspective I had the right of way and he was an asshole.
But you know what? I was in an angry mood. For all I know now, I may have unconsciously purposefully put myself in a situation that would trigger someone to treat me poorly so that I could unleash my own anger upon them.
Yeah, I know this might sound a bit “out there,” but upon reflection the only times I have ever experienced such things is when I was already in an angry vibe and looking to take it out on someone.
I once had a very similar situation happened a year and a half ago, same thing. Guy decides to jump the accelerator to intimidate me. But again, I was already in an angry vibe. Coincidence?
I also don’t believe it to be a coincidence that my laptop hard drive started to fail (it still works but the WiFi on my laptop is broken- and the hard drive will fail any day now). It also wasn’t a coincidence that I “accidentally” dropped my phone and shattered it. Nope.
Subconsciously these situations were created in order to perpetuate my grief, fear, anger, and desire- all energetic patterns that I was likely calibrated in during that time.
These “negative” things allowed me to be upset and despair (grief), made me fearful of the future because “what if my laptop fails and I run out of $ buying a new expensive one” (fear, and I need a high-powered laptop for video production for client), anger (why is this happening to me), and desire (I want a new laptop, phone, etc. but “can’t”).
But all these vibes I was in BEFORE these “negative” things happened! They were created by me or attracted to me to perpetuate my reality!
Another thing that happened is I rushed purchasing a new laptop. I ended up not researching laptop specs, and purchased a VERY slow laptop.
Now that I’m clear-headed, I am like, “oh shit,” because if I had just spent $500 more I could’ve got an exceptional laptop… and I’ll have to buy a better laptop anyways, so I’m kind of “out” on the money I spent for this temporary, low-quality laptop.
Increasing the Vibe
To increase my vibe I’ve meditated, visualized Buddha/Jesus or “the source of the Universe,” and actively taken responsibility and action for fixing the situation.
And strangely things started falling back into place. For example, a woman randomly messaged me on Instagram. She saw a comment I had made on an advertisement for that amazing course I bought.
She wanted to buy it, and I told her I had a referral link that would save her $500. It would also pay me $500, which would cover the laptop cost. She hasn’t been able to purchase yet, but she might.
My sales work is looking up too. One prospect told me that they didn’t want to hire me, but she may offer me a one-time payment for some video production for an online course she’s creating.
My guess is that the amount she will offer will be enough to cover my “bad laptop,” and potentially a new phone also.
As I’ve consciously made an effort to identify with “courage, acceptance, and willingness” by taking responsibility for my situation and actively improving it, I’ve observed things falling into place and everything improving.
By actively reminding myself everything is gonna be alright, things are becoming alright. It’s cool how that works.
I’m not an expert on increasing your vibration. And whether or not you believe in the map of consciousness (ie. the energetic component of it), the fact is that it is a highly accurate map and your average level of calibration will determine the results in life that you get.
Energetic Map + Dating
One final thing about this, is that what is fascinating is observing how even dating plays a role on the energetic map and how it affects my whole life.
As mentioned earlier I’m not too concerned about dating. I’m focused about business. But I’m not gonna lie, I’d like to get laid. Or at least go on some dates.
I’ve observed and spoke to my best friend about this. What I’ve been experiencing is “desire” for this particular result.
When I would see a pretty girl, I’d often think “damn I’d like her to be my girlfriend.” It’s okay to have these thoughts, but occasionally they’d dip into “desire” which means that you wish that it was true when in fact it isn’t.
Here’s the interesting thing: I notice that when I approach a pretty girl and ask for her number, I immediately feel healthier, energized, and happier. Even if she flat out rejects me.
This has ALWAYS baffled me. And EVERYONE- all men I’ve met- have observed this phenomenon as well.
“Wow, getting rejected actually feels amazing,” is a common thing you hear among men that go and approach girls they are interested in!
What the fuck? Isn’t it supposed to hurt? And sting? No, it often doesn’t, instead it often feels amazing.
Now I understand. Here’s why:
When you just look at the pretty girl and fantasize, you are in the state of “desire.” You want it but don’t have it. You aren’t doing anything about it.
Now when you approach her, regardless of the result, you move into the state of “courage.”
Remember that courage calibrates at 200, and anything above 200 is considered a “powerful attractor pattern” that will fulfill you and energize you. Anything less than 200 (ie. desire) is not healthy.
So the simple act of approaching a girl and asking her out immediately moves your calibration into at least 200. In some cases, when you are feeling neutral or willing to do it, you move into the calibration of 250-300 which is significantly greater than desire, which calibrates at 125.
Suddenly when you do that approach and go for what you want, you move into a higher level of consciousness regardless if you get a good result or not!
This also explains why I’m enjoying business & sales so much too. Things like Reddit which have the potential to trigger me lower my vibration and thus calibrate below 200, but business and taking action calibrates above 200 which gives me more energy.
Even though I’m “not focused on dating,” I’m observing that still approaching pretty girls makes me feel fucking amazing regardless of the outcome. It energizes the fuck out of me!
When you actively embody beliefs & actions that calibrate above 200 (again see the map of consciousness above) your entire vibration increases. You can also consciously release things like anger, grief, and shame, which is like letting go of chains.
It’s so cool to realize, and this map of consciousness is becoming something I am starting to live by. It explains many of the strange phenomenon I’ve observed in life, such as how getting rejected by a girl can make you feel 10x better than not approaching her in the first place- you took action, you embodied courage (or perhaps even willingness).
To Immigrate, or Not To Immigrate
I could honestly see myself living in Sofia, Bulgaria- at least for a whole year. Nothing is confirmed yet, I make no promises.
While I did love Thailand, I reported before that one problem of Chiang Mai is that they have a “smoky season” in which pollution reaches extremely dangerous levels. I haven’t been there then, but people who have only have negative things to report.
I think that I will often visit Thailand as almost a “second home,” but it’s probably off the tables for a primary home. That could change, but I don’t see it being my home for now.
This means that it’s Sofia or Phoenix (or somewhere in the USA) as a primary home base.
I don’t want to think about this right now. For now I’m just enjoying Sofia, and I really could see myself living here now.
At the same time I find myself nostalgic of some of the memories in Phoenix. The desert mountains, parties, and fun was great there too.
I’d need to earn a lot more in order to live there, but with my business goals that should soon become feasible. I’d sure be curious to try it out.
For now, I’m not worried about it. I’m happy in Sofia. So I’ll stay as long as I can, and deal with the next problem only when it comes.
What’s Good With You?
So that’s what’s up with me. What’s good with you?
Have you ever had a day, week, or month where literally everything seemed to be going just perfectly?
First you close some extra business deals, then you get a girlfriend/boyfriend, then you get a free dinner for no reason…
Such occurrences can be observed on the micro level (minutes or hours) or on the macro (months). It can also be observed for little things such as getting a free coffee, or big things such as job promotions and dating.
Furthermore these occurrences are both positive or negative.
I was blessed to have been exposed to energetic-related books at a younger age and study this, and now I’ve been able to observe it in my own life and others.
It’s really freaky how it truly is a law of the Universe that things form energetic spirals.
Let me start by giving some examples of energetic spirals from my own life. You will soon be able to see the spirals in your own life.
Case Study 1: “Law of Explosions”
Something I may have written about a couple years ago is something I called “The Law of Explosions.” I can’t remember whether this was published, but I definitely observed this Law in Montreal.
Basically what I had noticed in my life up to that point was that I often saw that I’d have no results in a particular area of life, but then suddenly it would feel that overnight I would have all of the results in the world.
I first observed this in business. I would have no clients, and then suddenly I’d have more clients and work than I knew what to do with.
The time it took to close my first deal was quite some time, but the time it took to close my second, third, and fourth was significantly less.
When I went to Montreal and later Bulgaria I observed this “Law of Explosions” in my social and dating life as well.
First I’d have no friends and be completely new to the city. I’d put in a ton of effort into meeting a lot of people. I would not be invited to things.
Then seemingly one day I’d wake up and I’d feel like a mini celebrity. I’d be getting recognized on the streets, have more social invitations than I could imagine, and feel great socially.
In dating this effect is particularly pronounced. One day you have no girls, next thing you know you have more girls than you know what to do with!
In fact I even wrote a long post about this, but I haven’t published it yet because it might sound a bit too egoic and goes into some other interesting stuff such as NoFAP…
The short version is that I observed dating followed the same pattern in every single city:
First you have no partners. You have no dates. You have to put in a ton of effort, and nothing really comes of it. The first few dates in a new city almost always suck.
Then you meet someone with whom you connect a bit more deeper with. That’s great, and most people stop there. If you keep going you’ll meet exponentially more people that you connect with, and have more dating partners than you can possibly imagine.
What was this “Law of Explosions?” Why was it that everything seemed to explode out of nowhere whether financially, socially, or in dating?
I was onto something with the “Law of Explosions,” but it would take another year until I actually discovered what it was.
Case Study 2: The Breakdown of Everything
In Mid-2018 when I had to leave Bulgaria for visa reasons, I entered more of a victim, docile state and stopped participating with so much effort in life.
Not just one area of my life suffered- everything seemed to suffer.
First my finances started sucking. I had to work really hard to try to find another client. I was unprepared for Cyprus, and especially the cost difference compared to Bulgaria.
Suddenly my relationship began to fall apart as we fought more and more, and me and my ex could not handle the distance. Boundaries were crossed.
I was alone, I felt alone, and I didn’t ask for help when I needed it. Instead of taking massive action, I rode this energetic downward spiral until the end of 2018.
At the end of 2018 everything had seemingly fallen apart for me. The relationship which was previously so magical was dead and left me shattered, my finances were less than ideal as I would have massive taxes to make up on, and I felt more lost than ever.
Everything is Connected – Quantum Entanglement
During each energetic spiral the strange truth that everything is connected in life became quite apparent.
There was no such thing as finances falling apart while relationships were maintained, and vice versa. While some areas of life received a greater impact (ie. total relationship destruction), other areas subsequently suffered in the meantime as well.
It’s very rare that I’ve observed one area of my life going amazing while everything else sucks.
I’m sure that it’s possible with others, however I haven’t really observed that. In general what I observe in people is that a couple areas of their life are going great, and other areas are going well.
It’s less common to see someone that has one area which is doing absolutely amazing and others which are doing completely awful, but it is possible.
What is Happening Here?
This effect can be coined “Energetic Spirals,” and when things are going well the “Wave of Fortune.” You can read more about it in “Reality Transurfing Steps I-V.”
When something goes well and you feel great, you attract more great things into your life which creates a self-fulfilling prophecy so things continue to go well.
The same can be true for when things go bad, if you let it be so. Something goes wrong, you get upset, and then things continue to go wrong.
For example, I recently returned to Bulgaria from Thailand and everything seemed to go wrong.
I got sick. I couldn’t eat. I was heartbroken again for a week. My laptop also decided to fail me, so I had to purchase a new one. The culture shock was more than I could’ve imagined. My muscles had become tight.
You have to be careful about energetic spirals because they are sneaky, both in the positive and the negative. Most people are completely unaware of them and unfortunately ride negative spirals downward.
Energetic Spirals, Decoded
Why this happens I can’t even be 100% for sure.
On the logical level when something good happens your brain’s focusing system begins to focus on more good, which makes you positive. When you’re positive other people receive good feelings which makes them more likely to serve you and continue to give you good things.
Imagine if someone just started screaming at you at work today for no reason. You probably won’t respond positively.
What’s probably happening there is the angry person had something bad happen to them, and so they’re in an angry mood. Because they’re angry they begin to attract more angry events onto themselves.
I think that many people get trapped in these energetic spirals without even realizing it.
People say “The world is an angry, mean place,” and then they go about life treating everyone like shit, and then their reality gets confirmed because no one likes being around that person!
I believe that there’s also an energetic component, in that certain events are literally attracted to you when you are sustaining certain vibes for extended periods of time.
Riding the Wave of Fortune
The great news with this is that when things are going well, it’s easy to ride the wave of fortune and continue to attract greatness into your life.
All you have to do is to continue to mentally replay the great events that have happened recently, and actively express gratitude to others, yourself, and to the Universe/God/whatever.
The gratitude brings you closer to the good things which happened, and mentally replaying it helps you feel better and believe more in the goodness of the world.
Now you can ride the waves of fortunes!
The hard part is not falling for traps when something doesn’t go perfectly as planned. When things go wrong, it’s important to maintain a clear vision, and keep your brain positive otherwise you can activate a downward spiral.
That doesn’t mean you should deny your negative emotions. Cry & release if you feel sad. If you’re angry go for an intense workout, or channel it into a creative pursuit.
The important thing here is to not channel your negative energy into yourself or into others. It’s okay to ask for help, but don’t channel anger into random people or those around you, for example.
It’s also critical to avoid a “victim mindset.” It’s all too easy to fall trap into thinking that you’re a victim and the world is against you.
I’ve observed this within myself to be even more subtle. In my case my ego will maintain a facade of control & responsibility, but it’ll replay a mental story in my mind of how everything fell apart.
The mental story will be about how things were great, and then things fell apart. The mental story will repeat itself over and over.
The key thing in the story is that it is unconscious and happening suddenly in my mind. Things are happening “to me” and not “for me or with me or because of me.”
When this happens you have to consciously take control of the story and say, “Yes, this happened, but now THIS is going to happen.” Then you have to take massive action into making that thing happen.
There was a study done in which professional and non-professionals had to shoot basketballs into a hoop.
First they did so in silence, and this served as collecting a benchmark for this person’s skill. For example, they may have scored 5/10 baskets, 6/10, etc.
Then the group of people were split into two groups. One group would have a crow that boo’d them and told them they sucked as they shot the basket. The other group would have a cheering, great crowd.
As expected the people with the cheering crowd did a bit better always. This is why it’s important to have people that support you and love you for who you are.
The other group of people had a crowd which actively put them down during the basketball shot.
A strange thing happened: some people become worse, whereas others did not get worse at all!
What the researchers uncovered was that some people were affected more by the negative crowd than others. Those that allowed the crowd to control their emotions performed worse.
On the other hand, those who were professional and were used to adversity were able to channel the negativity into an energy which worked for them, or drown it out entirely with focus.
In the same way this is how we overcome downward spirals- we acknowledge that the negative energy exists, but we don’t let it drag us down.
Sadness, anger, rage, hatred, lethargy, and all the negative emotions sometimes come about.
The important thing is to consciously acknowledge it, then focus on your objective anyways. If you feed into it then you will activate a downward spiral.
When you feel a good emotion you are allowed to indulge in it, not so much so that your happiness turns into pride, but indulging in such a way where that you are actively expressing your gratitude for this thing happening. This attracts more goodness, helps you perform better, and thus the wave of fortune gets activated.
Leverage in Life
To really understand energetic spirals you must observe them in your own life and others.
When things have gone wrong in the past, see if it let to things going more wrong as you indulge in the negative emotions and let it drag you down.
When things have gone well, try to reflect and recall if any other things went especially well in the hours, days, and weeks following the good event.
The first step to leveraging energetic spirals in life is to observe them. Once you can observe them and confirm their reality, then you are ready to leverage them.
When you can properly leverage energetic spirals by releasing negative energy and embracing positive energy, you can grow at an exponentially faster rate.
Decoding Energetic Spirals in Social Life
As an example, here’s a decoded energetic spiral in social life.
First I would have nothing in a new city. I’d have to put in a lot of energy in order to meet new people. The results would be little.
Over time though an exponential upward curve would begin to take place. On week 1 I’d have 1 friend, on week 2 I’d have 3, on week 3 I’d have 8, on week 4 I’d have 25, so on and so forth.
As you can see in that made-up example the increase every week was not linear. I did not gain a single friend every single week. Often what happens is I’d go from one friend to exploding over the course of a month.
Of course in this particular example you are limited to what you can socially handle, so eventually the exponential curve evens out once I hit my max.
The reason this happens is because when you don’t have social abundance it’s very hard to get more social abundance. It’s easier to get what you already have.
As soon as you make one friend, you can go to a party with that friend and meet all of their friends. Once you’ve met all of their friends, one of their friends will have several more friends to introduce you to.
The hardest part is finding that one friend to take you to a social event. Once you have that, everything “explodes” via the “Law of Explosions.”
Rich Get Richer…
If you look up the wealth map of various individuals, you’ll see that their wealth often follows a similar pattern. It explodes exponentially over time, and this is due to the Wave of Fortune that they have learned to ride!
Leveraging Spirals & Waves of Fortune
I have previously described how to leverage spirals & waves of fortune.
In short you must not get attached to negative events and never develop a victim mindset.
When things go well be grateful and replay those positive events over and over in your mind.
Take massive action towards creating a positive future (but do it in the now) and you’ll be more likely to activate a wave of fortune.
Once you activate a wave of fortune, keep putting in massive action and don’t become complacent.
What often happens in companies and governments (and even relationships) is that a lot of effort is made, but then when things are good the company/government stops trying and loses their grounding. They then crash and lose the wave of fortune.
As long as you stay committed to putting in the effort, your results in whichever area of your life will grow exponentially.
You will create more wealth, develop greater & higher-quality social circles, get a great dating life, and more.
Today I was watching a video in a course by Sam Ovens at consulting.com. His consulting course has been exceptional in teaching me new business mentality, Facebook Ad strategies, and more.
One of the videos just now struck me very hard.
It’s called “Facing off with the Devil.” You can actually watch this course content for free on his website if you sign up for a free trial (you get the first 2 week’s worth of content for free, the rest you must pay to access).
In “Facing Off With the Devil,” and the previous course content, Sam Ovens talks about how mentality is equally if not more important in achieving a goal than knowing the day to day tactics.
For example you could know how to run Facebook Ads but if you’re too scared or self-sabotage every time before you get successful, you won’t go anywhere.
Intelligence means little if you don’t have the beliefs that actually give you success.
This particular video is all about observing trends in people and life. A lot of the content I already knew, but a lot of it was new also.
Even the stuff I already knew was refreshing to watch- in fact in this explanation I was able to better see the patterns in my own life.
A lot of it has been shocking though. By facing the denial, inner lies, and negative trends in my own life I’ve realized so much.
A New Standard of Ethics
Who doesn’t want to succeed in business? If I were to ask you “do you want to retire now” you would definitely say “hell yes.”
But let me ask you this: have you ever illegally downloaded a song, course, movie, game, or employed some trick or gimmick in order to remove advertisements in an app?
I know I have.
I have hundreds (if not thousands) of illegally downloaded songs, videos, movies, images, and thousands of dollars worth in online courses illegally supplied to me.
Why should I deserve any degree of wealth when I steal from others? Others have put hard work into producing content for me, some paid and some free, but ultimately by ripping their stuff off the internet it is a form of theft that prevents the owner from getting the proper credit or cash they deserve.
That’s the weird thing about all of us humans. We’re all searching for the cheapest, most free, whatever form of stuff yet we all want to build wealth ourselves.
How can we as a species possibly rise out of our negative tendencies and go on to something greater if we stab each other?
Nuances of Torrenting
For whatever reason we have rationalized our way through illegally downloading of content online, music being the most common, but also movies, images, and other things.
It’s fucked up.
If you were to walk into a shop and grab one of their shoes and run out the door without getting caught you’d be a criminal.
Yet people think that by illegally downloading content online you aren’t doing something so bad.
When I researched it wondering how I could so easily fall into this trap, no one seemed to think it was wrong at all.
Technically giving out content for free can help you in the long-run. For example, some musicians release all of their songs for free, and then build their wealth via concerts, shirts, and merchandise.
However if someone should request payment for their song, it would only be ethical to give them this credit.
Now of course there are nuances to torrenting.
Should I pay for “no ads” on apps that I downloaded from the app store that I only play while on flights, effectively dodging all of the ads I was supposed to see in an ethical grey-zone?
In this case I have decided that I should. I’ve spent $12 on the apps I played the most, and intend to keep playing on flights, and deleted all of the rest.
What about movies & videos or podcasts though? What if you wish to watch something like this on a flight?
Well in my humble opinion it is perfectly ethical to torrent a movie as long as you pay for the movie after you’ve watched it.
For example, let’s say you want to watch the “Yes Man” movie. You can torrent it, put it on your computer or phone, watch it on a flight, then purchase it on YouTube Movies or something like this so that the creators get the proper credit.
As for public YouTube videos that would be free otherwise, this is an ethical grey-zone that I haven’t yet decided what’s best to do.
In some cases the videos have zero ads. In some cases they do.
Either way I think it’s ethical to download the videos only if you click on the video and leave it a “like” or “dislike” rating (and maybe a comment) after the fact also.
YouTube tracks how long you’ve watched a video, the engagement you give on it, etc. so by downloading YouTube videos and watching them offline you are robbing people of the ability to get a “like, comment, or view” which YouTube would then use to increase their engagement rating thus showing the video to more people.
Personal Decisions Moving Forward
I’ve deleted all songs, videos, movies, and photos off of my phone. When using free content I’ll try to give credit where credit is due, though it’s not always necessary (you can use Google’s “advanced search” option in order to find free stuff for ads).
I’ll attempt to take my own photos for ads, listen only to purchased music (otherwise listen on YouTube so that my views/engagement rating factor into their growth), pay for all value I’m receiving, and limit consumption of free material.
If I am receiving value, I will attempt to compensate the respective owner. One app I played that I really enjoyed appears to have no ads or method of donating, so I reached out to the developer via the contact Email offering a small donation if they would like it.
I owe almost $400 to a hospital in Canada that I feel didn’t really help me, but I’ll be balancing the invoice because I didn’t file an official dispute.
As explained in the video, and confirmed for me by my personal observations, everything in reality is reflected back to you via a mirror.
Back in 2017 when I was first getting started with online business I was investing a lot in my knowledge, buying things, being conscientious about money, etc. and that’s when I experienced the greatest growth.
Since then my income has remained basically the same, occasionally exceeding a certain point but then instantly falling back down to my baseline.
It’s actually hilarious. The whole saying that you have a certain “degree of wealth” you are comfortable with is so true.
My monthly income could never go lower than it is currently. If it did I’d freak out and work 24/7 until it got back to the same level.
At the same time it feels like there’s a barrier to the next level.
One way to step past the barrier as described in the video is to become the ideal client you wish to attract. This means paying for everything, extracting no free value, and paying on time, in full, etc. for everything. It also includes leaving tips, being generous, being pleasant, etc.
This is now what I fully intend to do. I hope to get many more clients, but first I must become the ideal client to all of the businesses I come into contact with.
I’m not trying to sound like I’m on a high-horse. It just makes logical sense that you should attract into your life what you are.
And it’s absolutely absurd to expect wealth when I take more from some people than I give.
How could I ask the Universe to give me wealth when I rip songs from YouTube to listen to them over and over for free, taking away from the owners the views, likes, or direct payment that they deserve?
Observations in the Wealth of Nations
One interesting observation I had made years prior, but now is really getting solidified, is the difference in mentality of certain countries compared to others.
In Germany for example there is a high standard of ethics. You are not allowed to illegally download things, and if you do you WILL get in trouble.
Germany is a great country to live in for the average person, clean, has great public transit, etc.
I’ve been there twice, and can personally attest to the beauty of Germany. People are non-criminal.
On the other hand the mentality in Bulgaria is that illegally downloading things is okay.
In fact based on my interaction with many in Bulgaria it seems that this behavior is the norm and completely acceptable. There is even a main website everyone goes to to illegally download movies, songs, etc.
Note: I am NOT ripping on any friends of mine, Bulgarians, or the nation of Bulgaria! I did the EXACT same thing, illegally downloading movies and songs from this exact same website… This is just an OBSERVATION of a correlation, not an attack on anyone.
This being said Bulgaria is the poorest EU country.
Now this is just two specially-selected countries and of course there are a million other factors that come into play here when we’re talking about the wealth or poverty of a nation.
Bulgaria particularly has experienced the bad-side of foreign occupation, destruction from WWII, destruction from Communism, etc. whereas Allied-occupied Germany at least had the support of France, Britain, and the USA when it came to rebuilding itself.
This is simply an observation, and nothing else. There will be nuances and those that don’t follow this particular rule entirely.
It’s just an interesting thing to observe.
Give as You Would like to Receive
Ultimately I’m just trying to be the person that I would want others to be to me from now on.
I won’t be perfect at it. I might mess up. We all do. And you shouldn’t feel bad for where you’re at because we all start somewhere..
There were a ton of other lessons in this video, and I still have more of it to watch (I just had to delete all my songs and stuff from PC/phone before proceeding and write this blog post first).
So while there were tons of other lessons and I’d highly recommend checking out these things first, this is one of my big take-aways: that I must give as I would like to receive.
On a very fundamental level, I’d like to embody the traits of a wealthy individual. A wealthy person does not rip off songs from musicians or illegally downloads movies. They just whip out their credit card and pay.
For a long time, years now, I’d always so “I’ll pay all the musicians back when I finally get wealthy,” but in reflection I realize that all the times I was increasing my wealth was when strangely I was investing in reality as ethically as possible.
This means that I was purchasing courses, buying products that I thought would benefit me, and being a good customer.
I wasn’t mulling for hours or weeks over a purchase decision, avoiding invoices, or illegally downloading songs when I was building wealth.
This post may have been a bit rambly- I’m quite a bit tired. There were all kinds of other lessons I wish I could instantly communicate from this one video, but I’m too tired to write it and need to get working again.
All in all there is definitely an observable trend in how people treat you based on how you treat others. There is some degree of karma, or the law of attraction, or mirror reflection.
Moving forward I’d like to embody the traits of my ideal clients, and minimize the consumption of free things and instead pay for everything that I consume.
No more “waiting to be wealthy” before buying songs instead of illegally downloading them or stuff like this. First you must give, to get…
“All is mind. Mind is all…. The Universe is Mental, held in the Mind of THE ALL.”
This Ancient Hermetic principle that “all is Mental” is irrefutable in both Science & Philosophy- it doesn’t matter which side you take.
Should you take the philosophical or spiritual side, you’ll believe in the spiritual nature of our existence and that we have came from elsewhere.
If you prefer the more scientific angle to the belief, then you’ll realize that all that is experienced can only be done so through the nervous system, and all in the nervous system leads to the mind.
Books like “You are the Universe” prove scientifically via complicated yet graspable explanations this.
At the same time, it’s irrefutable that we live in a physical world. It would be rather unwise to believe you can fly and jump off a cliff… You may be in for a surprise.
When it comes though to growing and creating wealth, attracting relationship or sexual partners, and developing your life you’ll realize that the vast majority of it is mental.
In dreams our Minds can instantly manifest anything. In the Physical which we reside in things may take a bit more time to come to you, but they always come.
There’s nothing I haven’t intently pursued that hasn’t came to me. By “intently” I mean that I also held a vision in my mind of receiving it, and persisted until it arrived.
The Great Struggle with this is that there is a certain darkness within- a part of us too trapped in the physicality of life to ever unleash the greatness that can also be found within.
This Darkness is too trapped in what IS and refuses to see what COULD BE. It gets trapped in repetitive thought patterns that prevent you from seeing opportunity. It creates a self-perpetuating circle of darkness.
Other base desires take over such as hunger, desire for sex, and an egoistic drama in how you partake in social life.
One of the greatest triggers of this darkness is fear.
A few days ago I launched a great new project for my business. I spent the past few days exhausted and doing nothing but trying to enjoy life after so much work.
When I checked the results of this project, I instantly felt the Fear and began to worry that my results weren’t good enough.
Despite my extensive training and step-by-step guide to success given by a mentor, I felt fear.
I almost wanted to back out of the project, to end it before more was lost, but then I took a deep breath, relaxed, and began to attempt to see the project objectively.
As I reviewed the data, to my astonishment, some of the metrics I was aiming for I blew completely out of the water!
I was doing much better than I could’ve anticipated.
It’s just that in the heat of the moment I missed my little success, instead focused on the aspects of the project which were less than ideal, and filled myself with fear.
The reality is that things are actually looking great. My project’s KPI may be within closer reach than I imagined!
As I’ve relaxed, and even write this to calm myself down more, I remember my training more and more.
The fearful part of my brain shuts off as the higher consciousness inside me takes over. I remember my plan & path towards my objective, and remember that I had anticipated certain roadblocks like the one I’m experiencing now- but I’m doing better than the average for sure.
All is mental, and mental is all. While we do inhabit a physical world, we interact with this physical world through our mind.
We are vastly limited by our senses, unable to truly see anything objectively. We can approach objectivity but can never truly be objective.
In this way it can be all too easy to fall for the trap of darkness and shoot yourself in the foot before ever taking a step out of the darkness.
With every great goal or project there is a Fear, a great Darkness. It’s not the moments where you feel inspiration that you’ll face the Fear, but instead the moments where you aren’t inspired that determines whether your goal comes to fruition in reality or not.
Your goals & dreams may be closer than you imagine… But you are limited by certain senses and feelings.
I urge you to try relax and find a path to your objective- And stick to it.
I’m walking a path I desperately wanted to walk many years ago. This project is everything to me.
I don’t feel inspired now. I feel slightly uneasy, wondering about the results and my money on the line.
There are doubts, fears, and a Darkness within. But I must walk the path I set out to walk when I was inspired.
And so must you.
All is mental, and mental is all. Yes there is the physical realm, but it only exists because we can perceive the physical through our mind. In the end there is vastly more available in resources than we could’ve imagined- we just have to open our creativity to it, and walk our paths amidst darkness.