Have you ever had a day, week, or month where literally everything seemed to be going just perfectly?
First you close some extra business deals, then you get a girlfriend/boyfriend, then you get a free dinner for no reason…
Such occurrences can be observed on the micro level (minutes or hours) or on the macro (months). It can also be observed for little things such as getting a free coffee, or big things such as job promotions and dating.
Furthermore these occurrences are both positive or negative.
I was blessed to have been exposed to energetic-related books at a younger age and study this, and now I’ve been able to observe it in my own life and others.
It’s really freaky how it truly is a law of the Universe that things form energetic spirals.
Let me start by giving some examples of energetic spirals from my own life. You will soon be able to see the spirals in your own life.
Case Study 1: “Law of Explosions”
Something I may have written about a couple years ago is something I called “The Law of Explosions.” I can’t remember whether this was published, but I definitely observed this Law in Montreal.
Basically what I had noticed in my life up to that point was that I often saw that I’d have no results in a particular area of life, but then suddenly it would feel that overnight I would have all of the results in the world.
I first observed this in business. I would have no clients, and then suddenly I’d have more clients and work than I knew what to do with.
The time it took to close my first deal was quite some time, but the time it took to close my second, third, and fourth was significantly less.
When I went to Montreal and later Bulgaria I observed this “Law of Explosions” in my social and dating life as well.
First I’d have no friends and be completely new to the city. I’d put in a ton of effort into meeting a lot of people. I would not be invited to things.
Then seemingly one day I’d wake up and I’d feel like a mini celebrity. I’d be getting recognized on the streets, have more social invitations than I could imagine, and feel great socially.
In dating this effect is particularly pronounced. One day you have no girls, next thing you know you have more girls than you know what to do with!
In fact I even wrote a long post about this, but I haven’t published it yet because it might sound a bit too egoic and goes into some other interesting stuff such as NoFAP…
The short version is that I observed dating followed the same pattern in every single city:
First you have no partners. You have no dates. You have to put in a ton of effort, and nothing really comes of it. The first few dates in a new city almost always suck.
Then you meet someone with whom you connect a bit more deeper with. That’s great, and most people stop there. If you keep going you’ll meet exponentially more people that you connect with, and have more dating partners than you can possibly imagine.
What was this “Law of Explosions?” Why was it that everything seemed to explode out of nowhere whether financially, socially, or in dating?
I was onto something with the “Law of Explosions,” but it would take another year until I actually discovered what it was.
Case Study 2: The Breakdown of Everything
In Mid-2018 when I had to leave Bulgaria for visa reasons, I entered more of a victim, docile state and stopped participating with so much effort in life.
Not just one area of my life suffered- everything seemed to suffer.
First my finances started sucking. I had to work really hard to try to find another client. I was unprepared for Cyprus, and especially the cost difference compared to Bulgaria.
Suddenly my relationship began to fall apart as we fought more and more, and me and my ex could not handle the distance. Boundaries were crossed.
I was alone, I felt alone, and I didn’t ask for help when I needed it. Instead of taking massive action, I rode this energetic downward spiral until the end of 2018.
At the end of 2018 everything had seemingly fallen apart for me. The relationship which was previously so magical was dead and left me shattered, my finances were less than ideal as I would have massive taxes to make up on, and I felt more lost than ever.
Everything is Connected – Quantum Entanglement
During each energetic spiral the strange truth that everything is connected in life became quite apparent.
There was no such thing as finances falling apart while relationships were maintained, and vice versa. While some areas of life received a greater impact (ie. total relationship destruction), other areas subsequently suffered in the meantime as well.
It’s very rare that I’ve observed one area of my life going amazing while everything else sucks.
I’m sure that it’s possible with others, however I haven’t really observed that. In general what I observe in people is that a couple areas of their life are going great, and other areas are going well.
It’s less common to see someone that has one area which is doing absolutely amazing and others which are doing completely awful, but it is possible.
What is Happening Here?
This effect can be coined “Energetic Spirals,” and when things are going well the “Wave of Fortune.” You can read more about it in “Reality Transurfing Steps I-V.”
When something goes well and you feel great, you attract more great things into your life which creates a self-fulfilling prophecy so things continue to go well.
The same can be true for when things go bad, if you let it be so. Something goes wrong, you get upset, and then things continue to go wrong.
For example, I recently returned to Bulgaria from Thailand and everything seemed to go wrong.
I got sick. I couldn’t eat. I was heartbroken again for a week. My laptop also decided to fail me, so I had to purchase a new one. The culture shock was more than I could’ve imagined. My muscles had become tight.
You have to be careful about energetic spirals because they are sneaky, both in the positive and the negative. Most people are completely unaware of them and unfortunately ride negative spirals downward.
Energetic Spirals, Decoded
Why this happens I can’t even be 100% for sure.
On the logical level when something good happens your brain’s focusing system begins to focus on more good, which makes you positive. When you’re positive other people receive good feelings which makes them more likely to serve you and continue to give you good things.
Imagine if someone just started screaming at you at work today for no reason. You probably won’t respond positively.
What’s probably happening there is the angry person had something bad happen to them, and so they’re in an angry mood. Because they’re angry they begin to attract more angry events onto themselves.
I think that many people get trapped in these energetic spirals without even realizing it.
People say “The world is an angry, mean place,” and then they go about life treating everyone like shit, and then their reality gets confirmed because no one likes being around that person!
I believe that there’s also an energetic component, in that certain events are literally attracted to you when you are sustaining certain vibes for extended periods of time.
Riding the Wave of Fortune
The great news with this is that when things are going well, it’s easy to ride the wave of fortune and continue to attract greatness into your life.
All you have to do is to continue to mentally replay the great events that have happened recently, and actively express gratitude to others, yourself, and to the Universe/God/whatever.
The gratitude brings you closer to the good things which happened, and mentally replaying it helps you feel better and believe more in the goodness of the world.
Now you can ride the waves of fortunes!
Avoiding Pitfalls
The hard part is not falling for traps when something doesn’t go perfectly as planned. When things go wrong, it’s important to maintain a clear vision, and keep your brain positive otherwise you can activate a downward spiral.
That doesn’t mean you should deny your negative emotions. Cry & release if you feel sad. If you’re angry go for an intense workout, or channel it into a creative pursuit.
The important thing here is to not channel your negative energy into yourself or into others. It’s okay to ask for help, but don’t channel anger into random people or those around you, for example.
It’s also critical to avoid a “victim mindset.” It’s all too easy to fall trap into thinking that you’re a victim and the world is against you.
I’ve observed this within myself to be even more subtle. In my case my ego will maintain a facade of control & responsibility, but it’ll replay a mental story in my mind of how everything fell apart.
The mental story will be about how things were great, and then things fell apart. The mental story will repeat itself over and over.
The key thing in the story is that it is unconscious and happening suddenly in my mind. Things are happening “to me” and not “for me or with me or because of me.”
When this happens you have to consciously take control of the story and say, “Yes, this happened, but now THIS is going to happen.” Then you have to take massive action into making that thing happen.
Basketball Study
There was a study done in which professional and non-professionals had to shoot basketballs into a hoop.
First they did so in silence, and this served as collecting a benchmark for this person’s skill. For example, they may have scored 5/10 baskets, 6/10, etc.
Then the group of people were split into two groups. One group would have a crow that boo’d them and told them they sucked as they shot the basket. The other group would have a cheering, great crowd.
As expected the people with the cheering crowd did a bit better always. This is why it’s important to have people that support you and love you for who you are.
The other group of people had a crowd which actively put them down during the basketball shot.
A strange thing happened: some people become worse, whereas others did not get worse at all!
What the researchers uncovered was that some people were affected more by the negative crowd than others. Those that allowed the crowd to control their emotions performed worse.
On the other hand, those who were professional and were used to adversity were able to channel the negativity into an energy which worked for them, or drown it out entirely with focus.
In the same way this is how we overcome downward spirals- we acknowledge that the negative energy exists, but we don’t let it drag us down.
Sadness, anger, rage, hatred, lethargy, and all the negative emotions sometimes come about.
The important thing is to consciously acknowledge it, then focus on your objective anyways. If you feed into it then you will activate a downward spiral.
When you feel a good emotion you are allowed to indulge in it, not so much so that your happiness turns into pride, but indulging in such a way where that you are actively expressing your gratitude for this thing happening. This attracts more goodness, helps you perform better, and thus the wave of fortune gets activated.
Leverage in Life
To really understand energetic spirals you must observe them in your own life and others.
When things have gone wrong in the past, see if it let to things going more wrong as you indulge in the negative emotions and let it drag you down.
When things have gone well, try to reflect and recall if any other things went especially well in the hours, days, and weeks following the good event.
The first step to leveraging energetic spirals in life is to observe them. Once you can observe them and confirm their reality, then you are ready to leverage them.
When you can properly leverage energetic spirals by releasing negative energy and embracing positive energy, you can grow at an exponentially faster rate.
Decoding Energetic Spirals in Social Life
As an example, here’s a decoded energetic spiral in social life.
First I would have nothing in a new city. I’d have to put in a lot of energy in order to meet new people. The results would be little.
Over time though an exponential upward curve would begin to take place. On week 1 I’d have 1 friend, on week 2 I’d have 3, on week 3 I’d have 8, on week 4 I’d have 25, so on and so forth.
As you can see in that made-up example the increase every week was not linear. I did not gain a single friend every single week. Often what happens is I’d go from one friend to exploding over the course of a month.
Of course in this particular example you are limited to what you can socially handle, so eventually the exponential curve evens out once I hit my max.
The reason this happens is because when you don’t have social abundance it’s very hard to get more social abundance. It’s easier to get what you already have.
As soon as you make one friend, you can go to a party with that friend and meet all of their friends. Once you’ve met all of their friends, one of their friends will have several more friends to introduce you to.
The hardest part is finding that one friend to take you to a social event. Once you have that, everything “explodes” via the “Law of Explosions.”
Rich Get Richer…
If you look up the wealth map of various individuals, you’ll see that their wealth often follows a similar pattern. It explodes exponentially over time, and this is due to the Wave of Fortune that they have learned to ride!
Leveraging Spirals & Waves of Fortune
I have previously described how to leverage spirals & waves of fortune.
In short you must not get attached to negative events and never develop a victim mindset.
When things go well be grateful and replay those positive events over and over in your mind.
Take massive action towards creating a positive future (but do it in the now) and you’ll be more likely to activate a wave of fortune.
Once you activate a wave of fortune, keep putting in massive action and don’t become complacent.
What often happens in companies and governments (and even relationships) is that a lot of effort is made, but then when things are good the company/government stops trying and loses their grounding. They then crash and lose the wave of fortune.
As long as you stay committed to putting in the effort, your results in whichever area of your life will grow exponentially.
You will create more wealth, develop greater & higher-quality social circles, get a great dating life, and more.
The key is finding & riding the wave of fortune…
Surf on,
-Michael
